Monday, September 15, 2008

The Night Doesn't Have To End In Sex


Going out on a date doesn't always have to end in sex. No matter how seductive the date can be, why not try ending the night in a different manner. Instead of going back to your date's house, or bringing anyone home, why not consider doing something different.

A good way to end the night is by going out for ice cream. Make a plan a head of time to have that be the last thing you do after the date. Share the ice cream with each other, and do the whole 'cute spoon feeding' thing to top off the romance. Be sure to splurge a little bit and get extra whipped topping, extra chocolate sauce and extra calorie goodness!

Take a nice evening stroll. Find your favorite romantic place, such as park, the beach, your favorite city road, the boardwalk, down town, or wherever you like best, and go for a romantic walk together. Hold hands and talk about your date. Talk about your favorite parts and what you are going to do on the next date.

Stay out of the house. It is way too easy to give temptation and get down and dirty. Do anything you can to stay away from the urge, and you should be fine. If you do end up back at each others pad, try only using sex toys to get each other off. Don't share the sex toys, bring your own and get your partner their own.

The sweetest way to end the night is with a soft, supple yet incredibly romantic good night kiss at the front door before you part ways. This allows both of you that stinging arousal sensation with no worry.

Another important thing to keep in mind is to keep the alcohol consumption to a minimum. Everyone knows that drinking alcohol usually makes people frisky and can very often lead to the urge to have sex. Keeping away may prove to help resisting sex easier on both of you.

Keeping the sex distant may not be the easiest thing to do, but it could end up saving your life. Enjoy your relationship for what it is rather than for the sexual aspect, and you may just find something more in the person you are after!